Showing posts with label survival. Show all posts
Showing posts with label survival. Show all posts

Wednesday, 16 December 2020

Survival

Well, I’m surviving through the Christmas season without any booze. I did a sneaky at the Board lunch today. In the end I decided to let the waiter pour me half a glass of wine so I didn’t feel the need to explain why I wasn’t drinking at this fancy restaurant when I’d ordered, what turned out to be, a beautiful piece of eye fillet.

I wasn’t even tempted to drink the wine. But now I sit here writing this post I do feel like it was such a waste not to have a stunning local red wine with my fabulous piece of meat.

But. I went for a short run after work and I don’t think I would have been able to do that if I’d had wine at lunchtime because I wouldn’t just have had one. If I’d had one, I’d want another delicious glass of glorious red wine. And maybe another.

I’m also very tired. I think it’s long work days which are making me feel so fatigued. Because I’m working hard in the lead up to going on holidays I can’t isolate whether it’s long work days or something else. 

In her book, the Sober Diaries, Clare Pooley talks about hitting the wall after day 40.

I read Clare’s book after I came across it on this webpage. There is a whole category of books called ‘Quit Lit’!

https://www.goodto.com/wellbeing/how-to-stop-drinking-alcohol-521760

Gosh what a book. Fantastic insight into someone else’s life as they gave up alcohol completely. For the ‘sober curious’ it’s a must read. As is her blog 

http://mummywasasecretdrinker.blogspot.com/

The wall is not about exhaustion, it’s about boredom and feeling bleugh. I’m not sure I feel like that exactly but I’m definitely tired. Bring on holidays!